I am not sure why I felt the need to blog about this but if it can help someone else or get someone through a situation similar to mine then it is worth it. Recently our little family had a major disagreement. It resulted in my losing my son in SL. I was put right in the middle and attempted to be the peace maker, which is what a real parent should do. Needless to say I believe my actions and words resulted in my loss. I will admit open and honestly most likely my words, tone, and questions caused a repairable situation to result in my son leaving the family. I do know it hurts and that hurt is very real. It still amazes me how we can come to love people we have never met before, but yet we can truly get to know the real person without never meeting the physical. I will always love him as my son, that will never change. If you are faced with a situation in your family similar to mine please remember that as a family you can get through anything. Family is there for each other no matter what. You may not always get along, you will have good days, and you will have bad but in the end what matters is you have someone there that really loves you and cares about you. If we don’t have love then what is life worth, even in SL. We all have challenges & trials in life it's how we deal with them that matter, it's taking something good from something bad that shows we have faced that obstacle and hopefully resolved it for the better. :)
Friday, November 16, 2012
All we need is love...
I am not sure why I felt the need to blog about this but if it can help someone else or get someone through a situation similar to mine then it is worth it. Recently our little family had a major disagreement. It resulted in my losing my son in SL. I was put right in the middle and attempted to be the peace maker, which is what a real parent should do. Needless to say I believe my actions and words resulted in my loss. I will admit open and honestly most likely my words, tone, and questions caused a repairable situation to result in my son leaving the family. I do know it hurts and that hurt is very real. It still amazes me how we can come to love people we have never met before, but yet we can truly get to know the real person without never meeting the physical. I will always love him as my son, that will never change. If you are faced with a situation in your family similar to mine please remember that as a family you can get through anything. Family is there for each other no matter what. You may not always get along, you will have good days, and you will have bad but in the end what matters is you have someone there that really loves you and cares about you. If we don’t have love then what is life worth, even in SL. We all have challenges & trials in life it's how we deal with them that matter, it's taking something good from something bad that shows we have faced that obstacle and hopefully resolved it for the better. :)
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